Any environment where people work together and rely on each other requires it, and positional and influential leaders are pivotal to it. TRUST, however, is a ‘thing’ that seems to elude many teams. Team members struggle to voice their opinions and ideas; feel connected to the work, colleagues or management. Corridor conversations are rampant and morale is low.   Innovative and explorative work is lacking, as the workplace seems fraught with danger and there are no safety nets in place for people to take risks.

The frontiers of brain research continue to add gravitas to what self aware leaders have instinctively known  – when there are high levels of trust in a team, there are far higher levels of collaboration, exploration and problem solving – not to mention happiness!

Brain imaging has shown clear indication that when we trust; Judith Glaser, head of the global Creating We Institute shows us in her book Conversational Intelligence that we flood the more evolved prefrontal cortex – executive brain – with feel good chemicals such as oxytocin and dopamine.  When this part of the brain is firing, it is responsible for growth, learning, connection, strategic thinking and problem solving.   We feel safe to be vulnerable, expose our thinking and test our assumptions.  When we distrust, the chemistry that closes down this part of the brain switches on, causing us to be in uncertainty, and on our way to a fear state – driven by the amygdala.  Different thinking and patterns are going on for us – a completely different set of neural networks at play.

When we are sitting in distrust, the chemicals flooding the brain, such as cortisol and norepinephrine are more likely to induce negative thoughts, aggressive (or passive-aggressive) behavior and survival mentality.  We tend to jump to conclusions that are not of a positive nature and ‘bunker-down’ our thinking.  We no longer feel safe and code people as ‘foe’ rather than ‘friend’.

Individuals – both leaders and team members I work with see trust as paramount to being able to deal with the complexity of the work and take approaches to the next level, yet many are unsure of how to get themselves out of a state of distrust in the first place.  (If I distrust you, why should I make an effort to get you to trust ME?)  It seems a LOSE-LOSE situation.   We get caught in a cycle of this distrust, unwilling to be vulnerable and ‘make the move’.  We are also being held to ransom by our more primitive brain where the amygdala resides, stressed, anxious and fearful ourselves.

Small steps.  It doesn’t have to be hard to start the shift.  Simply begin working with others in a way that honors you and them.  Move away from ‘I’ thinking to ‘we’ thinking and start recoding those neural pathways from distrust to trust.

Here are five simple suggestions I have for you on how you can increase the trust with people in your teams as well as flood your own brain with the right kinds of chemistry!

DISCOVER

Ask questions to discover more about what your people think about things and how they see the world. Talk with genuine curiosity with people to find out their opinions.

APPRECIATE

Notice and talk with your colleagues about what you appreciate about them.

ADMIT

Admit when you’re wrong – and how you’ve learnt or are learning from it.

EVOLVE

Get rid of blame and justification language when you speak with others – taking responsibility for your actions and approaches.

ALIGN

Do what you say you will do.

What are your great approaches to building TRUST? I’d love for you to send me your thoughts here.

Interested in the brain science?

The neuroscience side of leadership is a fascinating and fast developing field.  Tracey is currently studying with Judith Glaser of the Creating We Institute in New York. Judith Glaser’s book “Conversational Intelligence’ How Great Leaders Build Trust and Get Extraordinary Results’ is a rich source for leaders wanting to increase their knowledge of how to use conversations to bring about transformation in their teams and organisations, backed by a solid research base in the science of the brain.  Her approach to trust is to build it through authentic and trust inducing actions through conversations.  Judith’s position on achieving great things within organisations is this:

‘To get to the next level of greatness depends on the quality of the culture, which depends on the quality of relationships, which depends on the quality of conversations.  Everything happens through conversations.’ 

Tracey Ezard of CreatingWe

Tracey’s book ‘The Buzz’ Creating A Thriving and Collaborative Staff Learning Culture, writing for education leaders was released in August 2015.